Thursday, January 21, 2010

It makes me sad that people I had been TTC with a while back that had gotten pregnant and have had their babies, are coming back to start TTC their next one. Not sad for them, just sad for me.

6 comments:

Pris said...

Hey, that´s such a bummer. Sorry about that. I can´t imagine what its like. I´ve just started TTC not long ago and just found out I have PCOS too.

On the positive end, you´re young AND healthy. That´s way better than many others who are only trying to TTC much later in life. In their late 30s or 40s even.

My friend is now pregnant with her first at 37. I´m happy for her, but also wish I had the same. But on the other hand, I tell myself, I still have 10 yrs to get to where she is right now. So it helps for me to put things into perspective.

tishi said...

I agree, that sucks :(
my two best friends here in toronto have had 2 children in the time my DH and I have been trying!

VanZanto said...

I am soooo there too, Amy. And frankly, it sucks! It's too bad we don't live in the same area. We could totally get together and just have ourselves a nice big pity party and feel totally justified in doing so. :bighug:

Kelly said...

I totally hate all of this for myself, but even more for you because with every month it gets harder and harder. Every time I've been sad about it, I just refer to that poem you sent me and I remember that when I do finally get my baby, I'm going to love them so much that this will all have been worth it and make it all the more special.

Jenny said...

I know. I'm so sorry! I know how it feels! I don't have much room to talk now, since I've had my baby, BUT I was in your shoes for a very long time. I know how hard it is and I know all the private crying spells that goes along with it. Even though you've heard this a million times: Just hang in there, your day will come. *Hugs*

ElizabethMcKinnon said...

I know what you mean... I'm right there with you :(